Sunday, 17 December 2017
When I started using pen in my primary school, and I made a mistake, I would try hard to erase it before submitting to my teacher.
Sometimes, I use chalk to clean my mistake but it later re-appeared.
So I began to use saliva, it worked, but only to leave holes in my books.
My teachers then used to beat me for being outrageously dirty. But all I tried to do was to cover my error.
So I began to use saliva, it worked, but only to leave holes in my books.
My teachers then used to beat me for being outrageously dirty. But all I tried to do was to cover my error.
One day, a kind hearted teacher who loved me so much called me aside and he said, " Anytime you make a mistake, just cross it and move on" .
He said further " Trying to erase your mistakes would only damage your book to nothing.
I told him in protest that I don't want people to see my mistake.
My loving teacher laughed and said " Trying to erase your mistake will make more people know about your mess and the stigma is for life".
He said further " Trying to erase your mistakes would only damage your book to nothing.
I told him in protest that I don't want people to see my mistake.
My loving teacher laughed and said " Trying to erase your mistake will make more people know about your mess and the stigma is for life".
Have you made some mistakes in life? Cross it over and move on.
Don't expose yourself as a result of trying to cover your mistakes.
Better things are ahead of you.
Don't expose yourself as a result of trying to cover your mistakes.
Better things are ahead of you.
Thursday, 14 December 2017
Becoming Better
There is no absolute right more than one thing may be right . Each one has a right to his or her opinion . If we just pause and think , they may be right in their opinion, then our irritation will vanish.
By understanding this we can avoid unnecessary stresses.
Sunday, 6 December 2015
நீங்கள் எந்த அளவு அதிர்ஷ்டசாலி?
இத படிங்க....
இதை படிப்பதால் உங்கள் வாழ்கை முறை, கவலைகள், பழக்க வழக்கங்களில் கூட மாற்றம் ஏற்படலாம் ஐந்த நிமிடம் செலவிட்டு இதைப் படியுங்கள்.....
இதை படிப்பதால் உங்கள் வாழ்கை முறை, கவலைகள், பழக்க வழக்கங்களில் கூட மாற்றம் ஏற்படலாம் ஐந்த நிமிடம் செலவிட்டு இதைப் படியுங்கள்.....
உண்ண உணவும், உடுக்க உடையும், வசிக்க இடமும் உனக்கு இருந்தால் உலகில் உள்ள 75% மக்களைவிட அதிக வசதிகளை நீ பெற்றிருக்கிறாய்.
வங்கியில் உனக்குப் பணமிருந்தால் அவ்வாறு உள்ள 8% பணக்காரர்களுள் நீயும் ஒருவன். (80% மக்களுக்கு வங்கிக் கணக்கே இல்லை!)
உன்னிடம் கணிப்பொறி இருந்தால் நீ அவ்வாறு வாய்ப்பு பெற்ற 1% மனிதர்களுள் ஒருவன்.
நினைத்த நேரத்தில் நினைத்த நபருடன் மொபைலில் உன்னால் பேச முடிந்தால் அவ்வாறு வாய்ப்பே இல்லாமல் இந்த உலகில் இருக்கும் 175 கோடி மக்களை விட நீ மேலானவன்.
நோயின்றி, காலையில் புத்துணர்வுடன் நீ எழுந்தால், அந்த வாய்ப்பற்று இரவு படுக்கையிலேயே உயிர் துறந்த பலரைவிட நீ பாக்கியவான்.
👥 பார்வையின்மை, செவித்திறன் குறைபாடு, வாய் பேசாமை, உள்ளிட்ட எந்த குறைபாடுகளும் இல்லாது நீ இருந்தால் அவ்வாறு உள்ள 20 கோடி மக்களை விட நீ நல்ல நிலையில் இருக்கின்றாய்.
போர், சிறைத்தண்டனை, பட்டினி போன்ற சித்ரவதையில் நீ சிக்காமல் இருந்தால், உனக்கு உலகிலுள்ள 70 கோடி மக்களுக்குக் கிடைக்காத நல்ல வாழ்க்கை அமைந்துள்ளது என்பதை அறிந்திடு.
கொடுமைக்கு உள்ளாக்கப்படாமல் நீ விரும்பும் தெய்வத்தைத் வழிபட முடிந்தால், உலகிலுள்ள 300 கோடி மக்களுக்குக் கிடைக்காத சலுகையைப் பெற்றவன் நீ.
👪 உன் பெற்றோரை பிரியாமல் அவர்கள் உங்களுடன் இருந்தால் நீ துன்பத்தை அறியாதவன் என்பதைப் புரிந்து கொள்.
தாகம் எடுத்தால் குடிப்பதற்கு உங்களுக்கு தண்ணீர் கிடைக்கிறதா? அப்படியெனில் நீங்கள் கொடுத்து வைத்தவர். ஏனெனில், உலகம் முழுதும் சுமார் 100 கோடிக்கும் அதிகமான மக்களுக்கு பாதுகாப்பான தண்ணீர் குடிப்பதற்கு இல்லை.
உன்னால் தலை நிமிர்ந்து நின்று சிரிக்க முடியுமானால் அவ்வாறு செய்ய இயலாத அளவுக்குத் தைரியமும் நம்பிக்கையும் இல்லாதவர்களையும்விட நீ கொடுத்து வைத்தவன்.
கல்வியறிவு பெற்றிருந்து இந்தச் செய்தியைப் உன்னால் படிக்க முடிந்தால் அவ்வாறு செய்ய இயலாத 80 கோடி பேர்களுக்குக் கிடைக்காத கல்வியை நீ பெற்றுள்ளாய். (உலக அளவில் எழுத படிக்க தெரியாத மக்களின் எண்ணிக்கை மட்டுமே 80 கோடிக்கும் மேல்).
இணையத்தில் இந்த செய்தியை உன்னால் படிக்க முடிந்தால் அது கிடைக்காத 300 கோடி மக்களை விட நீ மேலானவன்.
நீங்கள் அனுபவித்து வரும் வசதிகளையும், தொழில்நுட்பத்தை
யும் அனுபவிக்க இயலாமல் ஏன் அது பற்றிய அறிவு கூட இல்லாமல் கோடிக்கணக்கானோர் இந்த உலகில் இருக்க,
யும் அனுபவிக்க இயலாமல் ஏன் அது பற்றிய அறிவு கூட இல்லாமல் கோடிக்கணக்கானோர் இந்த உலகில் இருக்க,
ஆண்டவன் இவ்வளவு விஷயம் உங்களுக்கு கொடுத்திருக்கும் போது நீங்க அதிர்ஷ்டசாலி இல்லையா பின்னே?
நீங்கள் அதிர்ஷ்டசாலிதான் வீண் கவலைகளை விட்டு அந்த கவலைகளை காரணம் காட்டி குடும்பத்தில் குழப்பங்கள், போதைப் பொருட்கள் என்பவற்றை விட்டு நான் அதிர்ஷ்டசாலி என்ற மன தைரியத்தோடு இயன்றளவு மற்றவர்களுக்கு உங்களால் முடிந்த உதவிகளை செய்யுங்கள். உங்கள் வாழ்க்கை மேலும் அழகானதாகவும் சிறந்ததாகவும் அமையும்.
நீங்கள் அதிர்ஷ்டசாலிதான் வீண் கவலைகளை விட்டு அந்த கவலைகளை காரணம் காட்டி குடும்பத்தில் குழப்பங்கள், போதைப் பொருட்கள் என்பவற்றை விட்டு நான் அதிர்ஷ்டசாலி என்ற மன தைரியத்தோடு இயன்றளவு மற்றவர்களுக்கு உங்களால் முடிந்த உதவிகளை செய்யுங்கள். உங்கள் வாழ்க்கை மேலும் அழகானதாகவும் சிறந்ததாகவும் அமையும்.
Biju Vargheese
20 hrs ·
The Spirit Of Chennai
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While the entire nation is debating on the "Non-sense" called "Intolerance", there is humanity at its best in Chennai. I can tell this for sure because, I stay in Qatar and my family (wife and 2 kids aged 11 and 7) are in Chennai. With all the floods and problems, I am getting the message from them, "We are safe".
In the wake of calamity, Chennai is "One". It has only one religion, "Humanity"; It has only one enemy, "Water"; there is only one aim "Help". And they did it in style. When they were offering help, they didn't ask whether you are "Hindu" or a "Christian" Or a "Muslim". They didn't ask whether you are "Rich" or "Poor". They didn't ask whether you are a "Tamlian", "Malayalee", "Telugu", "Kannadiga" or "North Indian". Only one question they asked; "Do you need any help?"
The rich people; my neighbors who never interacted with anybody in the neighborhood in last 4 years; opened the gates of their huge house. The man stood outside and welcomed people to his house. "We will eat whatever we have. We will share whatever we have. You can stay here until the water recedes"; that all he had said.. He accommodated around 35 people in his house. He is a Hindu Brahmin. He provided mat for the Muslims to do Namaz. He allowed Christians to pray in his Pooja room.
There were volunteers outside helping people to reach safe places. They used anything and everything as tool; until the army people reached. Once the experts came, they gave the leadership to the more experienced and helped them to help others. My wife told me that, there were group of people going through the streets with neck deep water and asking "Sir / Madam, do you need any help?" in front of every house. They provided whatever help they can and they distributed food and essentials. There were groups providing cellphone batteries for 5 minutes to anybody who want to talk.
I have seen people fight for food when there is a calamity. Even the most modern countries, when there is a calamity, people fight for food. They think only about themselves at that time. But, when the food was distributed in Chennai, it was calm. People stood in queues and they have given food for the people who are not able to stand in queues (elderly, mothers and kids). They brought boats. They made temporary rafts and just went on helping people.
On top of all these things, this is what my kids are seeing. This is what they are learning. How to help each other at the time of need. It goes straight into their brain. The images gets implanted there. And then, when there is another calamity, they know what to do.. How to survive.. How to get help and how to help others... This is what I want my kids to learn.. Humanity, without boundaries....
There is no wonder that, Chennai is one of the oldest cities in the world. It has survived everything thrown at it.. It will definitely remain so for ever. They are united. They can beat anything.. They can survive anything...
I am a proud Chennaite... I will never forget this in my life! A city which gave me and my family safety in the hour of need.. Thank you Chennai!.. Thank you Indian Army ! Thanks you India!!!
20 hrs ·
The Spirit Of Chennai
==================
While the entire nation is debating on the "Non-sense" called "Intolerance", there is humanity at its best in Chennai. I can tell this for sure because, I stay in Qatar and my family (wife and 2 kids aged 11 and 7) are in Chennai. With all the floods and problems, I am getting the message from them, "We are safe".
In the wake of calamity, Chennai is "One". It has only one religion, "Humanity"; It has only one enemy, "Water"; there is only one aim "Help". And they did it in style. When they were offering help, they didn't ask whether you are "Hindu" or a "Christian" Or a "Muslim". They didn't ask whether you are "Rich" or "Poor". They didn't ask whether you are a "Tamlian", "Malayalee", "Telugu", "Kannadiga" or "North Indian". Only one question they asked; "Do you need any help?"
The rich people; my neighbors who never interacted with anybody in the neighborhood in last 4 years; opened the gates of their huge house. The man stood outside and welcomed people to his house. "We will eat whatever we have. We will share whatever we have. You can stay here until the water recedes"; that all he had said.. He accommodated around 35 people in his house. He is a Hindu Brahmin. He provided mat for the Muslims to do Namaz. He allowed Christians to pray in his Pooja room.
There were volunteers outside helping people to reach safe places. They used anything and everything as tool; until the army people reached. Once the experts came, they gave the leadership to the more experienced and helped them to help others. My wife told me that, there were group of people going through the streets with neck deep water and asking "Sir / Madam, do you need any help?" in front of every house. They provided whatever help they can and they distributed food and essentials. There were groups providing cellphone batteries for 5 minutes to anybody who want to talk.
I have seen people fight for food when there is a calamity. Even the most modern countries, when there is a calamity, people fight for food. They think only about themselves at that time. But, when the food was distributed in Chennai, it was calm. People stood in queues and they have given food for the people who are not able to stand in queues (elderly, mothers and kids). They brought boats. They made temporary rafts and just went on helping people.
On top of all these things, this is what my kids are seeing. This is what they are learning. How to help each other at the time of need. It goes straight into their brain. The images gets implanted there. And then, when there is another calamity, they know what to do.. How to survive.. How to get help and how to help others... This is what I want my kids to learn.. Humanity, without boundaries....
There is no wonder that, Chennai is one of the oldest cities in the world. It has survived everything thrown at it.. It will definitely remain so for ever. They are united. They can beat anything.. They can survive anything...
I am a proud Chennaite... I will never forget this in my life! A city which gave me and my family safety in the hour of need.. Thank you Chennai!.. Thank you Indian Army ! Thanks you India!!!
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